Sunday, August 26, 2012

BASIC RELATIONSHIPS PROBLEMS!!

The Following are Basic problems partners face in a relationship:

1. Money Issues: Too much or lack of it, one partner has and is not readyto share, one takes decisions that do not favor the other partner when it comes to spending money.

2. Excessive use of Social Media like Facebook, Twitter and other sites atthe expense of your relationship. Ignoring your partner because you aretoo carried away by your 'Social networking activities.'

3. Lack Of Communication: The only normal communication becomes: greetings like good morning and welcome. Other things to talk about are the Kids. Apart from greetings and kids, there is nothing to talk about, so every man to his own, Either one is watching TV while the other is online, or one is sleeping while the other is reading a book, orone is outside visiting alone while the other is guarding the home.

4. Excessive Consumption of Alcohol : Either by both or one partner. this sometimes leads to quarrels, fights, disagreements and other issues that breach the peace that was.

5. Internet Relationships: One or both Partners become too involved in Internet Relationships and begins to ignore the relationships in the realworld as too much time is spent chatting and having "fantasy fun."

6. Sexual Problems : These problems arise as a result of incompatible libido or complete loss of libido. It can actually be treated or worked upon.

7. Boredom with the Relationship : Both or one partner is actually boredwith the Relationship, craves for something different, craves for adventure that is lacking in the Relationship. It can lead to emotional affairs and then make matters worse for this relationship as the boredom just increases and if not nib bed early, can lead to more serious problems.

8. Managing the Kids all alone : This is a problem in a large family where there is no support system for the family, and one partner gets tomanage the kids all alone while also managing the "family". It is a serious problem when one partner feels that giving money equals managing the home, and forgets that money can't go shopping on it's own; money cannot drop kids at school; money cannot cook the meals; money cannot do the washing and cleaning; money cannot take kids forDoctor's appointments etc. Especially when the money is not enough to pay those who can render these services for a fee. The one who puts in that physical energy may begin to feel used, and this is a common problem.

9. Infidelity: Infidelity has destroyed many relationships, It is a common relationship problems and I think that Lack of self control and discipline is a cause of this.

10. Pride: Pride goes before destruction and a haughty spirit before a great fall. A healthy Relationship is all about compromise, selflessness and humility, and finally, respect and appreciation for others. Can you think of any common Relationship Problem? Can you share with us by leaving a comment?

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David Silva

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