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Sunday, August 26, 2012

CAUGHT IN THE FLAMES!!! A must read

TOUCHING STORY.
TRUE STORY THAT HAPPENED IN CANADA

A baby boy David was born to a certain family. The mum was so excited that she hardly put him down.
One day she left him sleeping and went to the garden.

When she was there, the house caught fire and she ran back home as first as possible to save her only son. People tried to stop her but they didn't succeed. She went in and found the baby untouched.

Unfortunately her hair caught fire as she was going out and she started burning. It was very bad for the rest of her life because she had to live with a scar. The boy grew up and became very rich and shifted to town.

But in the real sense, he was ashamed of his mother's scars.
When people asked him, he would say, "l dont have someone so ugly in our family as my mother".

One day his mum overheard how his son was telling people and she was very disappointed. she decided to travel to town to
explain to his only son what had happened and the reason behind her ugliness. But unfortunately, the bus she was travelling with, got an accident and the mum died instantly. The boy heard of the news, and felt very happy.

He then rushed to the village and found people sad. He just passed them and went direct to her mothers room to search for
important documents.

He was shocked to find her MoM's oldest DIARY BOOK written,
DATE: 5th Sept 1980.
I was announced the WINNER MISS TORONTO BEAUTY CONTEST.

DATE: 14th Jan 1982.
My husband Tonny Gateson passed away in road accident and left me six months pregnant.

DATE: 2nd July 1983.I saved my only son David from a fire and I ended up loosing my hair while scars left on my face. David felt too bad and started crying,but it was TOO LATE!
TOO LATE!

PLEASE NOTE:
Never try to Abuse or Ignore your Parents.
They are blessing to us and you will cry when they are gone. Now, U have two thing to choose.

1. To SHARE this story to friends. OR
2. IGNORE as nothing has happened.

God is watching you. "I LOVE YOU MOM" !!! Send to ur friends if u really love her

CLICK THE ICONS BELOW!!
David Silva

IN THIS DREAM, WAS A LION, A SNAKE AND SOME HONEY- A MUST READ

Once a man saw in his dream, that a lion was chasing him. The man ran to a tree, climbed on to it and sat on a branch. He looked down and saw that the lion was still there waiting for
him.

The man then looked to his side where the branch he was sitting on was attached to the tree and saw that two rats were circling around and eating the branch. One rat was black and the other one was white. The branch will fall on the ground very soon.

The man then looked below again with fear and discovered that a big black snake had come and settled directly under him. The
snake opened its mouth right under the man so that he will fall into it. The man then looked up to see if there was anything that he could hold on to.

He saw another branch with a honeycomb. Drops of honey were falling from it.
The man wanted to taste one of the drops. So, he put his tongue
out and tasted one of the falling drops of honey.

The honey was amazing in taste. So, he wanted to taste another drop and then another and as a result, he got lost into the
sweetness of the honey. He forgot about the two rats eating
his branch away, the lion on the ground and the snake that is sitting right under him. Suddenly when the branch broke he
remembered all the dangers woke up from his sleep.

The man couldn't understand the dream,so he went to a scholar to know its meaning.

The scholar said " The lion you saw is your death.
It always chases you and goes where ever you go.
The two rats,one black and one white, are the night and the day. Black one is the night and the white one is the day. They circle around, coming one after another, to eat your time as they take you closer to death. The big black snake with a dark mouth is your grave. It's there, just waiting for you to fall into it.

The honeycomb is this world and the sweet drops of honey are the luxuries of this world. We like to taste a little of the luxuries of this world and it's very sweet. Then we want to taste little more and then more. Meanwhile, we get lost into it and
we forget about our time, we forget about our
death and we forget about our grave."


Moral: Life is full of attractions and distractions.
And death will come to us without any notice. So prepare for it well in advance so that you won't have to regret later.

Have a blessed day..


David Silva

3 WOMEN RAPES 20 YEAR OLD MAN

Many bizarre stories come out of Nigeria these days, but the one that came out of Gusau, Zamfara State this weekend will surely rank as a world-beater.

According to newspaper reports, three women were arraigned before a HigherShari'a Court in Gusau for allegedly r*ping a 20 year old man. The man, Abdulrahman Sulaiman, was a Man-O-War volunteer who went to the Women Multi-Purpose Center in Gusau to help organize a preaching session organizedby the state's Ministry of Women and Children's Affairs for women during the holy month of Ramadan.

According to the police prosecutors three women, Hannatu Ibrahim [23], Wosila Hassan [20] and Rukayya Hassan [21] conspired among themselves and serially r*ped Abdulrahman until he lost consciousness! How did this happen? The prosecutors said they lured him into a corner of the Women's Centre, where they "forced" him to made love with them in turn until poor Abdulrahman fell unconscious. It was said that he was rushed to hospital, where he was resuscitated. The three women have now been remanded in prison custody until Monday next week, when witnesses will be called to the court to testify against them.

I suspect that half of Gusau town will turn up in court on that day to hear the evidence against the three "conspirators." If the three women and the man in question actually did what they were alleged to have done 1] at a preaching session 2] during the month of Ramadan 3] when the centre was brimming withother women and children, then it will be a new low in religious morality in this part of the world.

The evidence will however be very interesting and it may force this country's lawyers and jurists to have to rewrite the law on r*pe. Some years ago, I heard a senior lawyer say on television that the law on rape as it stands todaydoes not envisage a woman r*ping a man, unless if he is a minor who is seduced by a much older woman. Otherwise, the lawyer said, "a woman cannot really r*pe a man because it requires his willing cooperation" to effect the act.

It will be interesting to see if the witnesses will say Abdulrahman shouted for help while he was being raped. Or what the three women used to force his cooperation—a gun or a knife, for instance. Anatomically speaking, while a man can successfully rape a woman who is not cooperating but who goes limp at gunpoint, the same can hardly be said of the reverse case. A man who has agun or a knife pointed at him and goes limp cannot be successfully r*ped!

My only fear with this story is that many men in Gusau and around this Nigeria will wistfully wish that they were the ones that were raped. Mark you, the three alleged "conspirators" are young women hardly out of teen ages. They will find many willing takers in Gusau and elsewhere in Nigeria without resorting to any force! In fact, if someone were to call for male volunteers to be r*ped, in this Nigeria, the queues will be longer than the men who lined upat the Hisbah Office in Kano to marry widows and divorcees !


David Silva

THE CRAZY CAT- JUST TO GET YOU SMILLING

A man absolutely hated his wife's cat and decided to get rid of
him one day by driving him 20 blocks from his home and leaving him at the park.

As he was getting home, the cat was walking up the driveway.
The next day he decided to drive the cat 40 blocks away. He put
the beast out and headed home.

Driving back up his driveway, there was the cat!

He kept taking the cat further and further and the cat would always beat him home. At last he decided to drive a few miles away, turn right, then left, past the bridge, then right again and another right until he reached what he thought was a safe distance from his home and left the cat there.

Hours later the man calls home to his wife:
"Jane, is the cat there?"
"Yes", the wife answers, "why do you ask?"
Frustrated, the man answered,"Put that silly thing on the phone, I'm lost and need directions!"


David Silva

VERY IMPORTANT ADVICES, WHICH YOU MUST SHARE

Carefully read through each of the following...

-Warn your girl child never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.

-Avoid getting dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2years old. Lean to excuse yourself.

-If you have to hire a house-help please kindly take them for HIV screening to determine their HIV status, properly interview them and make up your mind to treat them well.

-Never allow any adult refer to your new born as 'my wife' or 'my husband'

-Never tempt your husband with your younger sister. (Else he'd say its hers and the devil's fault)

-Avoid unnecessary familiarity and make sure you take care of your husband by yourself lest you lead him into temptation.

-Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they played together because young people now sexually abuse themselves.

-Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

-Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you might need to patiently ask a lot of questions from your child.

-If you don't teach your children about sex, the society will teach them the wrong values.

-It is always advisable you go through any new material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

-Teach your 3year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you.
(remember, charity begins at home and with you)

-Blacklist some materials you think could threaten the sanity of your child (that includes music, movies and musicians) and let them understand the value of standing out of the crowd.

-Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them always!

Now If after reading through this and you think its useful enough.

Please SHARE it and don't forget to Pass it on


David Silva

HOW DO I TELL MY BOYFRIEND, I AM 4 YEARS OLDER- URGENT?

My Name is Brenda, Please help me, l don't know what to do. l am in a relationship with a guy who is a 4 yearsyounger than me(discovered it late),he´s so sweet and all a lady would need in a man.

Both of us work and we spend all weekends together. Mostly we spend time out taking walks and he is also a good cook.
Almost everything he does is so perfect and he wants to marry me. How do l tell him the truth that I'm 4 year older than him.
Please I really Need your Advice


David Silva

10 MISTAKES MADE BY WOMEN IN BED

Last week the men hadtheir own fair share of the mistakes they may most likely make in bed.
This week however, I choose to focus on the women. I hear women complain that their man is cheating on them even when they try hard to satisfy him. However it's time for you to check your faults, you may also be making one or more of the following mistakes, which is killing the vibes in your man. Let us look at the common mistakes I feel most women are guilty of.
Mistake

1. He is not a mind reader
I cannot understand why women think a man should know it all in bed. That a man has had experiences does not make him qualified for all women, so you should open up and tell him what you want or else he would treat you the same way he treated the last, learn to express your desires to your companion.
Mistake

2. Shut up and drive
I intentionally wrote this point on the heels of the first so you do not get it mixed up. Bed/sex time is not the time to drawl about your day or make financial demands nor is it a time to lament about his cheating. Quit the chatter, it is a huge turn off for most men. Let your conversation be centered on the event and make it short and sensual.
Mistake

3. She is a boring box
Why do you have to lie down like a log of wood and expect the man to enjoy sex with you? Let us face it, some body response from you would encourage your man. You need not be a bore in life and in bed. Show some enthusiasm here. Let's just say you can start by moving your waist to the rhythm?.
Mistake

4. She has low self-esteem
This mistake I would dare say may be the most common, most women are conscious of their flabby ass, protruding stomach, lumpy flesh etc. Well findings have shown that at the moment of sex, a man is sure not seeing thoseflaws. Quit complaining about those things and who says he hasn't accessed you long before he took you up. Learn to be confident about your body because low self-esteem brings about bad s*x.
Mistake

5. Don't mistake tickling for pleasure
It is natural for women to be more ticklish than men, therefore except you're sure he enjoys being tickled please stop it. Just because he strains his legs and moves his body or has a smile on his face does not mean he enjoys your tickling moves. He may just be fighting the urge to kick you in the face.
Mistake

6. She the piglet
Personal hygiene for both parties is very important but much more for the woman. No one wants to see an overgrown…, it is completely uninviting. Havea shower and wear clean lingerie before going to bed. You may use light cologne to give you a more pleasant fragrance. That sure would go a long wayin enhancing the mood.
Mistake

7. She never initiates lovemaking
I do not understand why a woman would desire s*x from her man yet keep quiet about it. Why starve yourself for something you crave for? It is a plus to women who know what they want and go for it. You need not hold unto your guards all the time. Do not be scared to reveal your desires, it is sure an intriguing part that most men want to appreciate.
Mistake

8. The school called s*x
Ladies should realise that s*x is not all about the act; it is a process of learning and experimenting. Do not be stuck up with the one thing you have known all you life. Experiment and learn more, most men are good teachers if you are a willing and good student.
Mistake

9. He licks your sauce you ignore his sausage
Do you like getting head? Yes! Do you give a blow jobs? No! Huh? That is not a balance diet if you ask me; the sauce should go with the sausage. In addition, you could ask how the sausage should be eaten if you do not know, rather than groping in the dark, a blow job sure requires some talent.
Mistake

10. Gliding off for a shower.
Cannot understand it when women scamper off for a shower or get dressed immediately after s*x. What is the point for that? Hang around in bed and relish the moment. Cuddling and snuggling together would make the experience better!



David Silva