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Thursday, October 4, 2012

CHANGING FOR THE ONE WE LOVE- A MUST READ

My wife called, 'How long will you be with that newspaper? Will you come here and make your darling daughter eat her food?' I tossed the paper away and rushed to the scene. My only daughter Marichuy looked frightened.
Tears were welling up in her eyes. In front of her was a bowl filled to its brim with Curd Rice. Marichuy is a nice child, quite intelligent for her age.She has just turned eight. She particularly detested Curd Rice. My
mother and my wife are orthodox, and believe firmly in the 'cooling effects' of Curd Rice!
I cleared my throat, and picked up the bowl. 'Marichuy, darling,why don't you take a few mouthful of this Curd Rice?Just for Dad's sake, dear.
Marichuy softened a bit, and wiped her tears with the back of her hands. 'OK, Dad. I will eat – not just a few
mouthfuls, but the whole lot of this. But, you should…' marichuy hesitated. 'Dad, if I eat this entirecurd Rice, will you give me whatever I ask for?'………..Oh sure, darling'….'Prom ise?'……………..
'Promise'. I covered the pink soft hand extended by my daughter with mine, and clinch the deal.
'Ask Mom also to give a similar promise', my daughter insisted.
My wife put her hand on marichuy's, muttering 'Promise'.
Now I became a bit anxious. 'marichuy dear, you shouldn't insist on getting a computer or any such expensive items.Dad does not have that kind of money right now. OK?'
'No, Dad. I do not want anything expensive'.Slow ly and painfully, she finished eating the whole quantity.
I was silently angry with my wife and my mother for forcing my child eat something that she detested.
After the ordeal was through, marichuy came to me with her eyes wide with expectation.All our attention was on her………….'Dad, I want to have my head shaved off, this Sunday!' was her demand.
'Atrocious!' shouted my wife, 'A girl child having her head shaved off? Impossible!' 'Never in our family!' my mother rasp. 'She has been watching too much of television. Our culture is getting totally spoiled with these TV programs!'
marichuy darling, why don't you ask for something else? We will be sad seeing you with a clean-shaven head.'
'No, Dad. I do not want anything else', marichuy said with finality.
'Please, marichuy, why don't you try to understand our feelings?' I tried to plead with her.
'Dad, you saw how difficult it was for me to eat that Curd Rice'. She was in tears. 'And you promised to grant me whatever I ask for.Now, you are going back on your words. Was it not you who told me the story of King Harishchandra,a nd its moral that we should honor our promises no matter what?'
It was time for me to call the shots. 'Our promise must be kept.'
'Are you out your mind?' chorused my mother and wife.
'No. If we go back on our promises, she will never learn to honor her own. Marichuy, your wish will be fulfilled.'
With her head clean-shaven, MARICHUY had a round-face, and her eyes looked big and beautiful.
On Monday morning, I dropped her ather school. It was a sight to watch my hairless marichuy walking towards her classroom.She turned around and waved. I waved back with a smile.
Just then, a boy alighted from a car, and shouted, 'marichuy, please wait for me!'
What struck me was the hairless head of that boy. 'May be, that is the in-stuff', I thought.
'Sir, your daughter is great indeed!' Without introducing herself, a lady got out of the car, and continued,' That boy who is walking along with your daughter is my son Harish.He is suffering from… … leukemia.' She paused to muffle her sobs. Harish could not attend the school for the whole of the last month.He lost all his hair due to the side effects of the chemotherapy. He refused to come back to school fearing the unintentional but cruel teasing of the schoolmates'mar ichuy visited him last week, and promised him that she will take care of the teasing issue.
But, I never imagined she would sacrifice her lovely hair for the sake of my son!
Sir, you and your wife are blessed to have such a noble soul as your daughter.'
I stood transfix. And then, I wept. 'My little Angel, you are teaching me how self-less real love is!'


*The happiest people on this planet are not those who live on their own terms but are those who change their terms for the ones whom they love..*

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Thursday, September 20, 2012

TEN INTERESTING FACTS TO NOTE ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS!!

1.) A successful relationship is not the one which is free from any disagreement or argument but one where the people know how to patch up, forget the bitter past, have a new argument and getused to repeat this process all their life.
2.) Every relationship has some complications and every human being tries his/her best to make it further complicated.
3.) A man-woman friendship is full of twists and turns, it is just a matter of time when you realize that you are moving in a circle.
4.) A wife can never understand how happy the husband feels when someone thinks that he is actually the king of the house. Actually the people meant to say that he is a big fool to think like that. A husband can never understand how happy the wife feels when someone compliments her for getting such a sweet husband. Actually the people mean to say that the husband is indeed a fool.
5.) If your relationship has just broke up and the person involved says that you would never get a person like him/her then you should feel lucky enough and hope the saying comes true because if you don't want him/her, then there is absolutely no reason that you would want to have someone like him/her!
6.) After watching the parents fighting, the first thing that comes to mind of the child is 'whom should I support?' (Who would you cheer for?)
7.) Opposite-sex friendships enrich one's life but the family members can never understand and appreciate this enrichment.
8.) If you cannot differentiate between love and lust, then you are dating the right person.
9.) Love is the best thing that can ever happen to a human being, it refers to love after marriage.
10.) If a relationship has to break then nothing in the world can stop it but still we humans try our best to save it.
Hope you liked the above interesting facts about relationships; feel absolutely free to share your precious views, queries, inputs or experiences!

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100 ADMIRABLE FACTS ABOUT GUYS, THAT GIRLS SHOULD KNOW!!

Below are 100 fully outlined facts about guys that we believe every girl should know...

1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. they prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys hate other flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.
5. Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics .
8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
12. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them. …….dont think so
13. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking! but do not generalise
14. Guys cry!!!
15. Don't provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
16. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
17. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for themto accept their defeat.
18. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
19. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh…neve r mind!" would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
20. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands……yeh rite – Whatever.
21. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
22. When a guy makes a prolonged "umm" or makes any excuses when you're asking him to doyou a favor, he's actually saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.
23. When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow". So true.
24. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
25. Guys hate gays!
26. Guys love their moms.
27. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
28. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.
29. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
30. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
31. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
32. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.
33. Guys are very open about themselves.
34. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him wait that long.
35. No guy is bad when he is courting
36. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
37. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much pretty.
38. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may endup being admired by your boyfriend.
39. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice…….very true.
40. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
41. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
42. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts. ……..sumtimes.
43. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
44. Guys virtually brag about anything.
45. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
46. Guys think too much.
47. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.
48. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does!……very true.
49. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!
50. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
51. It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they've been together for 3 years or more.
52. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
53. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never- been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.
54. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
55. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
56. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed P**** with their girlfriends…..s umtimes depends wen they want sumat.
57. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous.
58. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
59. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me"……sumtimes.
60. Guys don't really have final decisions.
61. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
62. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him….very important.
63. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
64. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
65. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
66. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
67. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
68. A guy would waste his time over video games and football, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
69. Guys love girls who can cook or bake. ….they love u regardless.
70. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!……true but only wen the guys are ready 2be settled down.
71. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
72. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
73. Don't be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
74. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be surprised.
75. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
76. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
77. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.
78. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
79. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and hejust tried to be polite.
80. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
81. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they'll realize they're wrong.
82. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.
83. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
84. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.
85. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
86. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
87. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed by you or he's criticizing you.
88. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
89. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
90. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
91. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
92. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
93. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
94. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up.He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
95. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
96. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
97. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things. Not their hair!
98. If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.
99. Guys hate girls who overreact. ……sumtimes.
100. Guys love you more than you love them IF they are serious in your relationships

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TEN RELATIONSHIP TIPS AND BEST PRACTICES!!!

1. Without quality time, your relationship will not survive. Carve out at least half an hour a night, and at least one day a month when you the two of you spend time exclusively together.
2. You will both need security, comfort. A good relationship is built on compromise and a great deal of give and take on both sides.
3. Keep your dependence and independence in balance. Tell and show your partner how much you need him, but don't cling, as that can make your partner feel trapped.
4. Encourage him to listen to you, by showing appreciation when he does. By the same token, show interest when he talks to you. Be aware that most men aren't mentally programmed for conversation in the way women are. They need more silence and internal time.
5. Make him appreciate you. Don't wait for a spontaneous compliment, but say something good about yourself and ask for his agreement.
6. Teach him, preferably early in your relationship, exactly how to give you a fail-safe orgasm because it's unlikely he'll find out alone. If you don't yet know yourself, find out.
7. Learn to do the one thing that is most likely to restore good feeling in your relationship - giving your partner a genuine, loving and approving smile.
8.Often those subtle quirks that first attracted you to your partner can, with time, turn around and become toe-curlingly annoying habits. Learn to love him, warts and all.
9. Hidden resentments poison a relationship; so if something bothers you, say it. Remember that while men are wary of emotional conversations, they love to find solutions. Express your problemand then ask him to help you find the answer.
10. Learn that punishing your partner won't work. It may make you feel better to give him a hard time, but it will actually make him dig his heels in more. A better tactic is to reward the things you like and ignore what you don't like.

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Tuesday, September 18, 2012

20 THINGS A MAN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT A GIRL!!

1.When a girl says she's sad, but she isn't
crying, it means she's crying in her
heart.

2. When she ignores youafter you've
done something wrong, it's best to give
her some time to cool down before
touching her heart with an apology.

3. A girl can't find anything to hate
about the guy she loves(which is why
it is so hard for her to 'get over him'
after the relationship' s over.)

4. If a girl loves a guy, he will always be
on her mind every minute of the day,
even though she flirts with other guys.

5. When the guy she likes smiles and
stares deep into her eyes, she will melt.

6. A girl likes to hear compliments, but
usually not sure how to react to them.

7. When a particular guy flirts with a girl
very often, a girl would start thinking
the guy likes her. So if you treat a girl
just as a friend, go easy on the smiles
and stare ok?

8. If you don't like a girl who likes you,
break it to her gently.

9. If a girl starts avoiding you after you
reject her, leave her alone for a while. If
you still treat her as a friend, talk to her.

10. Girls enjoy talking about what they
feel. Music, poetry, drawings and
writing are ways of expressing
themselves (which explains why most
girls like writing journals).

11. Never tell a girl that she is useless in
anyway.

12. Being too serious can turn a girl off.

13. When the guy she likes calls her for
the first time, the girl may act
uninterested during the call. But as
soon as the phone is back on the hook,
she will whoop with joy and
immediately start telephoning her friends to spread the news.

14. A smile means a lot to agirl.

15. If you like a girl, try making friends with her first. Let her get to know you.

16. If a girl says she can't go out with
you because she has to study, leave.

17. But if she still calls you or expect a
call from you, stay.

18. Don't try to guess a girl's feelings.
Ask her.....

19. Hearing the words "Ilove you" is a
great reassurance to a girl that she is
beautiful.

20. After a girl falls in love with a guy,
she'll wonder why she never noticed
him before.

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Monday, September 17, 2012

EGYPTIAN WOMAN BURIED ALIVE FOR POSSESSING A BIBLE, FOUND ALIVE AFTER 15 DAYS

A Muslim man in Egypt killed his wife because she was reading the Bible and then buried her with their infant baby and an 8-year old daughter.
The girls were buried alive!

He then reported to the police that an uncle killed the kids. 15 days later, another family member died. When they went to bury him, they found the 2 little girls under the sand – ALIVE!

The country is outraged over the incident, and the man will be executed.. The older girl was asked how she had survived and she says:- 'A man wearing shiny white clothes, with bleeding wounds in his hands, came
every day to feed us. He woke up my mom so she could nurse my sister,' she said.

She was interviewed on Egyptian national TV, by avail ed Muslim woman news anchor. She said on public TV, 'This was none other than Jesus, because nobody else does things like this!' Muslims believe Isa (Jesus) would do this, but the wounds mean He really was crucified, and it's clear also that He is alive! But, it's also clear that the child could not make up a story like this, and there is no way these children could have
survived without a true miracle.

Muslim leaders are going to have a hard time to figure out what to do with this, and the popularity of the Passion movie doesn't help! With Egypt at the centre of the media and education in the Middle East , you can be sure this story will spread. Christ is still turning the world upside down! Please let this story be shared.

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David Silva

Friday, September 14, 2012

DON'T MISS A DATE WITH YOUR MOTHER- A MUST READ

After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman
out to dinner and a movie. She said I love you but I know this other
woman loves you and would love to spend sometime with you.

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my
three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.

That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.
"What's wrong, are you well," she asked?
"I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you," I responded. "Just
the two of us."
She thought about it for a moment, and then said, "I would like that
very much."

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous.
When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be
nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary.

She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's.
"I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they
were impressed, "she said, as she got into the car. They can't wait to hear about our meeting".

We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady.
After we sat down, I had to read the menu.

Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there
staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips "It was I who used to
have to read the menu when you were small," she said.
"Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor," I responded.

During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation - nothing extraordinary, but catching up on recent events of each other's life.
We talked so much that we missed the movie.

As we arrived at her house later, she said, "I'll go out with you again,
but only if you let me invite you." I agreed.

"How was your dinner date?" asked my wife when I got home. "Very
nice, Much more so than I could have imagined," I answered.

A few days later, my mother died.
It happened so suddenly that I did not get to do anything for her.
Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant
receipt from the same place where mother and I had dined.

An attached note said:"I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I
could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son."

At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: "I
LOVE YOU!" and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve.

Nothing in life is more important than your family.
Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be
put off till "some other time."

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David Silva

ONE FOR ME AND ONE FOR YOU- A MUST READ AND SHARE!!!

Two little boys stole a bag of oranges from their neighbor and decided to go to a calm place and share their "loot". One of them suggested the nearby cemetery.

As they were jumping the big gate to enter the cemetery, two oranges fell out of the bag behind the gate, but they didn't bother to pick them
since they had enough in the bag.

A few minutes later a drunkard, on his way from a local bar passes by near the cemetery gate and heard a voice: "ONE FOR ME,ONE FOR YOU,ONE FOR ME ONE FOR YOU"

He immediately sobers up and runs as fast as he can to the local Priest and gasping for breath he says:"Father... father please come with me..come and witness GOD and satan sharing corpses at the cemetery.

They both ran back to the cemetery gate and the voice continued: "ONE FOR ME ONE FOR YOU,ONE FOR ME ONE FOR YOU..." Suddenly the voice stop counting and says: "WHAT ABOUT THE TWO AT THE GATE?"

They started running...even the Priest almost passed the church gate
shouting....."W e are not dead"

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David Silva

DON'T BE SHY TO EXPRESS LOVE WHEN YOU FEEL IT- A MUST READ!!!

There was once a guy who suffered from cancer... a cancer that can't be treated. He was 18 years old and he could die anytime. All his life, he was stuck in his house being taken cared by his mother. He never went outside but he was sick of staying home and wanted to go out for once.

So he asked his mother and she gave him permission. He walked down his block and found a lot of stores.

He passed a CD store and looked through the front door for a second as he walked. He stopped and went back to look into the store. He saw a young girl about his age and he knew it was love at first sight. He opened the door and walked in, not looking at anything else but her. He walked closer and closer until he was finally at the front desk where she sat.

She looked up and asked "Can I help you?" She smiled and he thought it was the most beautiful smile he has ever seen before and wanted to kiss her right there.

He said "Uh... Yeah... Umm... I would like to buy a CD." He picked one out and gave her money for it.
"Would you like me to wrap it for you?" she asked, smiling her cute smile again.

He nodded and she went to the back.
She came back with the wrapped CD and gave it to him. He took it and walked out of the store. He went home and from then on, he went to that store everyday and bought a CD, and she wrapped it for him. He took the CD home and put it in his closet. He was still too shy to ask her out and he really wanted to but he couldn't. His mother found out about this and told him to just ask her.

So the next day, he took all his courage and went to the store. He bought a CD like he did everyday and once again she went to the back of the store and came back with it wrapped. He took it and when she wasn't looking, he left his phone number on the desk and ran out...

!!!RRRING! !!
The mother picked up the phone and said, "Hello?"
It was the girl!!! She asked for the boy and the mother started to cry and said, "You don't know? He passed away yesterday... "

The line was quiet except for the cries of the boy's mother.

Later in the day. the mother went into the boy's room because she wanted to remember him. She thought she would start by looking at his clothes. So she opened the closet. She was face to face with piles and piles and piles of unopened CDs. She was surprised to find all those CDs and she picked one up and sat down on the bed and she started to open one.

Inside, there was a CD and as she took it out of the wrapper, out fell a piece of paper. The motherpicked it up and started to read it.

It said: Hi... I think U R really cute. Do u wanna go out with me? Love, Jacelyn The mother opened another CD...

Again there was a piece of paper. It said: Hi... I think U R really cute. Do u wanna go out with me?Love, Jacelyn

So do Not be shy to EXPRESS LOVE WHEN YOU FEEL IT, but before then, Share this below.

David Silva

Thursday, September 13, 2012

THE MANY NAMES OF CHRIST- A MUST READ AND SHARE

To the ARTIST He is the One Altogether Lovely.
To the ARCHITECT He is the Chief Corner Stone.
To the BAKER He is the Living Bread.
To the BANKER He is the Hidden Treasure.
To the BIOLOGIST He is the Life.
To the BUILDER He is the Sure Foundation.
To the CARPENTER He is the Door.
To the DOCTOR He is the Great Physician.
To the EDUCATOR He is the Great Teacher.
To the ENGINEER He is the New and Living Way.
To the FLORIST He is the Rose of Sharon and the Lily of the Valley.
To the GEOLOGIST He is the Rock of Ages.
To the HORTICULTURIST He is the True Vine.
To the JUDGE He is the Righteous Judge, Judge of All Men.
To the JEWELER He is the Pearl of Great Price.
To the LAWYER He is the Counselor, the Lawgiver, the Advocate.
To the NEWSPAPER He is the Good Tidings of Great Joy.
To the OCULIST He is the Light of the Eyes.
To the PHILANTHROPIST He is the Unspeakable Gift.
To the PHILOSOPHER He is the Wisdom of God.
To the PREACHER He is the Word of God.
To the SCULPTOR He is the Living Stone.
To the SERVANT He is the Good Master.
To the STATESMAN He is the Desire of All Nations.
To the STUDENT He is the Incarnate Truth.
To the THEOLOGIAN He is the Author and Finisher of our Faith.
To the TOILER He is the Giver of Rest.
To the SINNER He is the Lamb of God that taketh away the sins of the World.
To the CHRISTIAN He is the Son of the Living God, the Savior, the Redeemer and the Lord.


Hit like/share if you are proud of Jesus Christ, ignore if not &
write "I love you Jesus" if you mean it.


David Silva

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

THE TRUTH ABOUT A LADY- ARE YOU ONE?

Every girl wants to be addressed as a lady. The truth is this: not all grown ups are ladies.
¤A lady does not flash/beep a man to call him back.
¤A lady does not depend completely on a man for survival she does it herself sometimes.
¤A lady does not act or pretend because she must be accepted by a guy.
¤A lady says whatever is in her mind all times.
¤A lady dresses up to bring out her ferminine side by wearing the right thing for her body type while being careful not to expose what should be properly covered because she knows its more appreciated when hidden.
¤A lady bares it all for her man inside, but hides it from every other man outside.
¤A lady understands and values time with her maker and God. She knoes she is nothing without him
¤A lady does not consume bottles of beer. She knows its unladylike.
¤A lady does not smoke. Its for riffraffs.
¤A lady understands signs of time.
¤A lady knows everything about Government and politics not just fashion and beauty.
¤A lady does not keep boyfriends, she nurtures a relationship.
¤A lady understands that one of the way to a mans heart is his belly and she feeds him with the right things.
¤A lady understands that her very long nails is an evidence that there are some things she cannotdo in and for the home.
¤A lady,not a girl is a friend to her man.
¤Above all a lady should be very neat..
Ask urself and be sincere. Are u a lady?
To the guys is ur woman a lady?
Guys pls be a gentle man and not a headache.

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BURNED BISCUITS- A MUST READ...

Must read this story carefully and share it......I hope it will help you to change your mentality towards any kind of relationship.

When I was a kid, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then.
I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work.

On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned biscuits in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed!

Yet all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my mom and ask me how my day was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that biscuit and eat every bite!

When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits. And I'll never forget what he said:

"Honey, I love burned biscuits. Don't be sorry "

Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said,

"Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides - a little burnt biscuit never hurt anyone!"

Life is full of imperfect things... and imperfect people.
I'm not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and anniversaries just like everyone else. But what I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each others faults - and choosing to celebrate each others differences - is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.

And that's my prayer for you today. That you will learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of God.
Because in the end, He's the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where a burnt biscuit isn't a deal-breaker!

We could extend this to any relationship. In fact, understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship!

Being happy doesn't mean everything is perfect. It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.

"Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket - keep it in your own."

So, please pass me a biscuit. And, yes, the burnt one will do just fine!


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I LOVE YOU BECAUSE..........

♥ I love you when I am Lonely because you remind me I'm not alone as long as I have you. ♥
♥ I love you when I am Happy You because you fill my heart with joy. ♥
♥ I love you when I am sad because I miss you because you comfort me and wipe every tear away. ♥
♥ I love you when it's cloudy outside because YOU are my sunshine no matter what the weather is like. ♥
♥ I love you when it's cold because just thinking of you makes me warm inside. ♥
♥ I love you when it's beautiful and sunny outside because a day like this reminds me of YOU. ♥
♥ I love you when it's dark as night because you fill my every dark corner of my soul with your love and light. ♥
♥ I love you when I am afraid and doubtful because you teach me your faith and strengthen me when I am weak. ♥
♥ I love you because you are my everything.



DS.
David Silva

Monday, September 10, 2012

WHEN GOD ORDERS, EVEN THE DEVIL OBEYS- A MUST READ AND SHARÉ

A very poor woman called a Christian radio station asking for help. A bad, evil man who was listening to this radio program decided
to make something out of it.

He got her address, called his secretary and ordered her to buy food
and take to the woman with the following instruction., '' when the
woman asks who sent the food, tell her that its from the devil.''

when she arrived, the woman was so happy and she started putting the food inside. The Secretary asked her.''dont you want to know who sent the food''?.

The woman answered. ''no , it doesnt matter, coz when GOD orders, even the devil obeys

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David Silva

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

THE POWER OF TRUE LOVE:

A very poor man lived with his wife.

One day, his wife, who had very long hair asked him to buy her a comb for her hair to grow well and to be well-groomed.
The man felt very sorry and said no. He explained that he did not even have enough money to fix the strap of his watch he had just broken.

She did not insist on her request.
The man went to work and passed by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife.

He came home in the evening with the comb in his hand ready to give to his wife.

He was surprised when he saw his wife with a very short hair cut.
She had sold her hair and was holding a new watch band.

Tears flowed simultaneously from their eyes, not for the futility of their actions, but for the reciprocity of their love.

MORAL: To love is nothing, to be loved is something but to love and to be loved by the one you love,that is EVERYTHING. Never take love
for granted. :)

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David Silva

Saturday, September 1, 2012

WHERE WAS HE WHEN I NEEDED HIM?- SEPTEMBER SPECIAL, A MUST READ

Sally jumped up as soon as she saw the surgeon come out of the operating room. She said: "How is my little boy? Is he going to be all right? When can I see him?"

The surgeon said, "I'm sorry. We did all we could, but your boy didn't make it."

Sally said, "Why do little children get cancer? Doesn't God care any more? Where were you, God, when my son needed you?"

The surgeon asked, "Would you like some time alone with your son? One of the nurses will be out in a few minutes, before he's transported to the university."

Sally asked the nurse to stay with her while she said good-bye to son. She ran her fingers lovingly through his thick red curly hair.
"Would you like a lock of his hair?" the nurse asked.

Sally nodded yes. The nurse cut a lock of the boy's hair, put it in a plastic bag and handed it to Sally. The mother said, "It was Jimmy's idea to donate his body to the university for study. He said it might help somebody else. "I said no at first, but Jimmy said, 'Mom, I won't be using it after I die. Maybe it will help some other little boy spend one more day with his Mom." She went on, "My Jimmy had a heart of gold. Always thinking of someone else. Always wanting to help others if he could."

Sally walked out of Children's mercy Hospital for the last time, after spending most of the last six months there. She put the bag with Jimmy's belongings on the seat beside her in the car. Thedrive home was difficult. It was even harder to enter the empty house. She carried Jimmy's belongings, and the plastic bag with the lock of his hair to her son's room.

She started placing the model cars and other personal things back in his room exactly where he had always kept them. She laid down across his bed and, hugging his pillow, cried herself to sleep.

It was around midnight when Sally awoke. Laying beside her on the bed was a folded letter. Theletter said:

"Dear Mom,

I know you're going to miss me; but don't think that I will ever forget you, or stop loving you, just 'cause I'm not around to say I LOVE YOU. I will always love you, Mom, even more with eachday. Someday we will see each other again. Until then, if you want to adopt a little boy so you won't be so lonely, that's okay with me. He can have my room and old stuff to play with. But, if you decide to get a girl instead, she probably wouldn't like the same things us boys do. You'll have to buy her dolls and stuff girls like, you know.

Don't be sad thinking about me. This really is a neat place. Grandma and Grandpa met me as soon as I got here and showed me around some, but it will take a long time to see everything. The angels are so cool. I love to watch them fly. And, you know what? Jesus doesn't look like any of his pictures. Yet, when I saw Him, I knew it was Him.

Jesus himself took me to see GOD! And guess what, Mom? I got to sit on God's knee and talk to Him, like I was somebody important. That's when I told Him that I wantedto write you a letter, to tell you good-bye and everything. But I already knew that wasn't allowed. Well, you know what Mom?

God handed me some paper and His own personal pen to write you this letter. I think Gabriel is the name of the angel who is going to drop this letter off toyou. God said for me to give you the answer to one of the questions you asked Him

'Where wasHe when I needed him?' "God said He was in the same place with me, as when His son Jesus was on the cross. He was right there, as He always is with all His children.

Oh, by the way, Mom, no one else can see what I've written except you. To everyone else this is just a blank piece of paper. Isn't that cool? I have to give God His pen back now. He needs it towrite some more names in the Book of Life. Tonight I get to sit at the table with Jesus for supper. I'm, sure the food will be great.

Oh, I almost forgot to tell you. I don't hurt anymore. The cancer is all gone. I'm glad because I couldn't stand that pain anymore and God couldn't stand to see me hurt so much, either. That's when He sent The Angel of Mercy to come get me. The Angel said I was a Special Delivery! Howabout that?

Signed with Love from: God, Jesus & Me."

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Friday, August 31, 2012

SHE SOLD HER HAIR FOR HER LOVE- A MUST READ AND SHARE

September Edition- Welcome to September From Heart Advice:

A very poor man lived with his wife.
One day, his wife, who had very long hair asked him to buy her a comb for her hair to grow well and to be well-groomed.

The man felt very sorry and said no. He explained that he did not even have enough money to fix the strap of his watch he had just broken.
She did not insist on her request.

The man went to work and passed by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife.
He came home in the evening with the comb in his hand ready to give to his wife.

He was surprised when he saw his wife with a very short hair cut.
She had sold her hair and was holding a new watch band.

Tears flowed simultaneously from their eyes, not for the futility of their actions, but for the reciprocity of their love.


MORAL: To love is nothing, to be loved is something but to love and to be loved by the one you love,that is EVERYTHING. Never take love
for granted


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David Silva

Thursday, August 30, 2012

LOVE IS AN IMPORTANT CHAPTER OF OUR LIFE- A MUST READ

Love is life

Love is like a glass vase once you drop it breaks,
Falling in to you, is my most wonderful in my life,
I may be fat but your arise takes the biscuit lug,
Love isn't a maybe thing...you know when you love someone.!!
Love can make me smile and laugh but, love can also hurt us,
You are my world but u will never, and you can't see it in my eyes,
Why does a rose symbolize love when a rose always dies..?
Don't act like you love me if you don't, don't tell me I'm special if I'm not, and don't try to make me feel like I'm worth the world to you if I'm not,
When you say we are best friends, I smile n say its true but if u only knew that deep down I die to be with you...
Love is like a river for ever flowing,
Don't look 4 Mr. Right look 4 MR. Right-Now and soon that "NOW" part will just fall right off...
love is an important chapter in life. I guess you skipped that one..!

David Silva

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

HAPPINESS( characteristics of great people)

Happiness! Happiness!! Happiness!!!,
Oh why a marvellous state to be happy, Happiness can be defined as a mental or emotional state of well-being characterised by positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy, It is also a moment of total excitement and pleasure, which certainly brings about total peace, love, unity etc. Every normal person wants to be happy to be happy, bt nt every1 understands d principles/pathways governing it. Though for most people happiness z mo mental, but understanding dis basic pathways/principle can make it a life style.

PATHWAYS TO HAPPINESS
1. Forget the former things (but be sure u learnt 4rm it)
2. Don't bear grudges ( is better u express yourself dan live wit bitterness)
3. Take responsibility 4 ur life
4. Build ur character/ attitude
5. Build healthy relationships
6. Be confident in who you are(Don't imitate people)
7. Identify ur purpose in life n pursue
8. Be optimistic all d time
9. Accept ur mistakes/failures and correct/amend them
10. Be at least content wit what u have, while u strive 4 d ones u desire
11. Utilise d potentials in you(talents)
12. MAKE OTHERS HAPPY (very important).
Finally: happiness depends basically on individual, if u choose to be happy u will be........for me I CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY, I Don't know about u........
David Silva

Tuesday, August 28, 2012

YOUR LIFE IS NOT A COINCIDENCE. IT'S A REFLECTION OF YOU!"

A son and his father were walking on the mountains. Suddenly, his son falls, hurts himself and screams:
"AAAhhhhhhhhhhh !!!"
To his surprise, he hears the voice repeating, somewhere in the
mountain: "AAAhhhhhhhhhhh!!!"

Curious, he yells: "Who are you?"
He receives the answer:"Who are you?"
And then he screams to the mountain: "I admire you!"
The voice answers: "I admire you!"
Angered at the response, he screams: "Coward!"
He receives the answer:"Coward! "

He looks to his father and asks: "What's going on?"
The father smiles and says:"My son, pay attention."
Again the man screams: "You are a champion!"
The voice answers: "You are a champion!"
The boy is surprised, but does not understand.

Then the father explains:"People call this ECHO, but really this is LIFE.
It gives you back everything you say or do.
Our life is simply a reflection of our actions.
If you want more love in the world, create more love in your
heart.
If you want more competence in your team, improve your competence.
This relationship applies to everything, in all aspects of life;
Life will give you back everything you have given to it."


YOUR LIFE IS NOT A COINCIDENCE. IT'S A REFLECTION OF YOU!"

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WITHIN- THIS LOVE IS FELT, AND GROWS WITH DAY

Within

Wishing to express all that's felt inside
As the emotions burst outward and change tides
The ebb and flow forever now altered
No longer whilst in service need we ever again falter

This Love is felt and grows with each day
Bringing us closer to each other in every way
Bathe in its beauty and bask in its light
Know full well more awaken from their nights

The waves of Love that do ensue
Bond us in service and connection too
We are all one together there is no doubt
And spreading the Love is what we are all about

So with this poem of gracious expression
Gratitude is intended and perhaps a suggestion
Smile bright and wide forevermore
Embrace this Love that beckons at our door

Trust in all the symphonic flow
Open up heart and let the illusions go
There within this moment of bliss
All wisdom and answers flow back with a kiss


SOURCE: www.LovesFrequency.com
David Silva

LOVE ISN'T ONLY A FEELING

Love isn't only a feeling.
Love is the energy that keeps us alive in every way ...
So does pain. Love and hurt lie close together.
But it isn't love that hurt us, it's the fact that with everytime we fall in love we also expect. It might be wrong, but let's be honest it's true. Like seeing someone you love, loves somebody else is painful.

But if we truly love someone it should be like ..
seeing that someone you love heartbroken
. hurts even more.

Only if we recognize the difference we're willing to love unconditionally. and we won't feel any pain ...
Only the one who's looking for you ..
is the one you've been waiting for ..

David Silva

Monday, August 27, 2012

WHAT CAN I DO FOR YOU MOM? A MUST READ

After having a lot of success in his career a young man felt an urge to repay back to his mother for all that she had done for him.

So he asked her, "Mom, what can I give you? What can I do for you?

I sincerely want to repay you for all the sacrifices you have made for me and forall the love you have showered upon me."

Mother looked surprised and said,
"Why do you think about it.
It was my duty so I did it, you don't have to repay me.
Even if you want to, there is no way a man can ever repay his mother."

Despite her continuous refusal to ask for anything, he continued to persist. To put an end to the discussion,
mom said, "All right. If you must, then tonight you sleep on my bed, with me, just as you used to when you were a baby."
He said, "That's a strange thing to ask for, but if it pleases you, I will."

As soon as he fell asleep, the mother got up and brought a bucket of water. She poured a mug full of water on his side.
Feeling disturbed by the wetness under him, in his sleep he moved away to the other side of the bed.
As he settled down, his mother poured another mug of water on the other side.
In his slumber he tried to find space towards the foot post of the bed.

Sometime later, he woke up feeling that this part of the bed too was damp.
He got up and saw his mother, with the mug in her hand.
He asked angrily, "What are you doing mother?
Why don't you let me sleep?
How do you expect me to sleep on a wet bed?"

Mother said, "I slept with you, when you wetted the bed in the night.
I changed your clothes and moved you to the dry part of the bed, while I slept on the wet side.
You wanted to repay me, Can you sleep here even for one
night with me on a damp bed?
If you can, I'll take it that you have repaid me."


MORAL LESSON:
Of all the debts in the world, the one that can never be repaid is the one you owe to your mother.
You can never repay the love, care and time your mother gave to bring you up.
You are a part of her flesh and blood; don't forget this, because she never ever forgets it.


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EVERY BOYS WISH- A MUST READ FOR GIRLS AND OTHERS

1] To have that someone who would proudly tell that he is her bf, inspite of his looks whether good or bad.
2] To have that someone who would call at any unexpected time just to tell him that she miss him.
3] To have that someone who would not make him jealous and possessive of other people
4] To have that someone who would make reasons to meet him every chance she gets.
5] To give every happiness back to his father which his father had given him over a period of 22 yrs.
6] To show his mother that he is capable of handling all things alone
7] To make his sibling whether sister or brother happy by bringing them gifts every week.
8] To have that someone whom he can trust, care for, love her.
9] And finally when he settles down, to live peacefully.


And people say, boys only think about money and cheating girls.

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THE OLD FISHERMAN- A MUST READ AND SHARE!!!

Our house was directly across the street from the clinic entrance of Johns Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore. We lived downstairs and rented the upstairs rooms to out-patients at the clinic.

One summer evening as I was fixing supper, there was a knock at the door. I opened it to see a truly awful looking man. "Why, he's hardly taller than my eight-year-old, " I thought as I stared at the stooped, shriveled body. But the appalling thing was his face ... lopsided from swelling, red and raw. Yet his voice was pleasant as he said, "Good evening. I've come to see if you've a room for just one night. I came for a treatment this morning from the eastern shore, and there's no bus 'til morning."

He told me he'd been hunting for a room since noon but with no success. No one seemed to have a room. "I guess it's my face ... I know it looks terrible, but my doctor says with a few more treatments..."

For a moment I hesitated, but his next words convinced me. "I could sleep in this rocking chair on the porch. My bus leaves early in the morning."

I told him we would find him a bed, but to rest on the porch. I went inside and finished getting supper. When we were ready, I asked the old man if he would join us. "No thank you. I have plenty." And he held up a brown paper bag.

When I had finished the dishes, I went out on the porch to talk with him for a few minutes. It didn't take long time to see that this old man had an oversized heart crowded into that tiny body. He told me he fished for a living to support his daughter, her five children, and her husband, who was hopelessly crippled from a back injury.

He didn't tell it by way of complaint. In fact, every other sentence was preface with a thanks to God for a blessing. He was grateful that no pain accompanied his disease, which was apparently a form of skin cancer. He thanked God for giving him the strength to keep going.

At bedtime, we put a camp cot in the children's room for him. When I got up in the morning, the bed linens were neatly folded and the little man was out on theporch. He refused breakfast. But just before he left for his bus, haltingly, as if asking a great favor, he said, "Could I please come back and stay the next time I have a treatment? I won't put you out a bit. I can sleep fine in a chair."

He paused a moment and then added, "Your children made me feel at home. Grownups are bothered by my face, but children don't seem to mind."
I told him he was welcome to come again.

On his next trip he arrived a little after seven in the morning. As a gift, he brought a big fish and a quart of the largest oysters I had ever seen. He said hehad shucked them that morning before he left so that they'd be nice and fresh. I knew his bus left at 4:00 a.m. and I wondered what time he had to get up in order to do this for us.

During the years he came to stay overnight with us, there was never a time that he did not bring us fish or oysters or vegetables from his garden. Other times we received packages in the mail, always by special delivery ... fish and oysterspacked in a box with fresh young spinach or kale ... every leaf carefully washed.Knowing that he must walk three miles to mail these, and knowing how little money he had made the gifts doubly precious.

When I received these little remembrances, I often thought of a comment our next-door neighbor made after he left that first morning. "Did you keep that awful looking man last night? I turned him away! You can lose roomers by putting up such people!"

Maybe we did lose roomers once or twice. But oh! If only they could have knownhim, perhaps their illness' would have been easier to bear. I know our family will always be grateful to have known him. From him, we learned what it was toaccept the bad without complaint and the good with gratitude to God.

Recently I was visiting a friend who has a greenhouse. As she showed me her flowers, we came to the most beautiful one of all ... a golden chrysanthemum, bursting with blooms. But to my great surprise, it was growing in an old dented, rusty bucket.

I thought to myself, "If this were my plant, I'd put it in the loveliest container I had!" My friend changed my mind.
"I ran short of pots," she explained," and knowing how beautiful this one would be, I thought it wouldn't mind starting out in this old pail. It's just for a little while, until I can put it out in the garden."

She must have wondered why I laughed so delightedly, but I was imagining such a scene in heaven. "Here's an especially beautiful one," God might have said when he came to the soul of the sweet old fisherman. "He won't mind starting in this small body."

All this happened long ago ... and now, in God's garden, how tall this lovely soul must stand.


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HE SAW HER LYING IN A POOL OF HER OWN BLOOD- A MUST READ!!!

A VERY TOUCHING STORY FOR LOVERS, MARRIED COUPLE, RELATION SHIP AND FOR THE FAMILY......... ....,

A couple have been married for over 9years without children and it was becoming their 10th year.

Dave and Clara stayed with each other and hoped that they will have a child before their 10th year of marriage runs out, because they were under persuasion from friends and family members to get a divorce; but they could'nt let go, because of the love between them.

Months passed and one day, while Dave was returning from work, he saw his wife walking down the road with a man. The man had his arms around her neck and they looked very happy.

For over a week, he saw the same man with his wife at various places and one evening, while Dave was returning from work he saw the man drop her off at the house after giving her a kiss on the cheek.

Dave was angry and sad.
Two days later, after a hectic day at work, Dave was taking water with a glass jug from the dispenser when the phone rang.
He picked it up and the person said, "Hello dear, I'll be coming to your house this evening to see you as promised. I hope.....".

Dave hung-up the phone. It was a male voice and he was sure the person was the man he had always seen her with.

He suddenly became shaky with the thought that he has lost his wife to another man. The glass jug fell from his hand and shattered into pieces. Clara came running into the room asking, "Is everything okay?".

In anger he gave his wife a push and she fell.
She wasn't moving or getting up.
Dave then realized that she fell where he broke the glass jug. A
large piece of glass had pierced her. He felt her breath, pulse and heart beat but there she lay lifeless.

His wife was dead.

In total confusion, he saw an envelope in her hand. He took it, opened it and was shocked by its content -it was a letter.

It read:
"My loving husband, words cannot express how I feel so, I had to write it down. I have been going to see a doctor for over a
week and I wanted to be sure before I give you the news. The
doctor confirmed it that I am pregnant with a twin and our baby is due 7months from now.

The same doctor is my long lost brother whom I lost contact with after our marriage. He has promised to take care of me and our baby and give us the best without collecting a dime.

He also promised to have dinner with us today.
I am putting this on your favorite chair in the sitting room for you to remember the day you proposed to me and I had to write to you saying,"Yes" because I was so happy.

Thanks for staying by my side".
-Your loving wife

The letter fell from his hand.

There was a knock at the door and the same man he had seen with his wife came in and said,
"Hello Dave, I suppose I'm right. Its Max, the brother of your wife and......".

Suddenly, Max noticed his sister lying in a pool of her blood.
He rushed her to the hospital and she was confirmed dead! Her twin baby gone.

NOTE
- We should not be too quick to take unnecessary actions in our relationship or marriage when we haven't questioned our partner or spouse on what we saw or heard about them.
-Each of us have our faults.

Moral lesson:
We shouldn't be too fast to decide the judgement of others.
Have you thought of that thing you are doing wrong, that no one sees?
- Not everything you see, hear, or believe about someone is true

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Sunday, August 26, 2012

ON MY WEDDING DAY, I CARRIED MY WIFE IN MY ARMS- A MUST READ

On my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms. The bridal car stopped in front of our one-room flat. My buddies insisted that I carry her out of the car in my arms. So I carried her into our home. She was then plump and shy. I was a strong and happy bridegroom.

This was the scene of ten years ago. The following days were as simple as a cupof pure water. We had a kid, I went into business and tried to make more money. When the assets were steadily increasing, the affections between us seemed to ebb. She was a civil servant.

Every morning we left home together and got home almost at the same time. Our kid was studying in a boarding school. Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy. But the calm life was more likely to be affected by unpredictable changes.

Dew came into my life.
It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Dew hugged me from behind. My heart once again was immersed in her stream of love. This was the apartment I bought for her. Dew said, "You are the kind of man who best draws girl's eyeballs."

Her words suddenly reminded me of my wife. When we just married, my wife said "Men like you, once successful, will be very attractive to girls." Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I knew I had betrayed my wife. But I couldn't help doing so.

I moved Dew's hands aside and said, "You go to select some furniture, O.K.? I'vegot something to do in the company." Obviously she was unhappy, because I hadpromised her to go and see with her. At the moment, the idea of divorce becameclearer in my mind although it used to be something impossible to me. However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife about it.

No matter how mildlyI mentioned it to her, she would be deeply hurt. Honestly, she was a good wife. Every evening she was busy preparing dinner. I was sitting in front of the TV. The dinner was ready soon. Then we watched TV together or, I was lounging before the computer, visualising Dew's body. This was the means of my entertainment.

One day I said to her in a slight joking way. "Suppose we divorce, what will you do?" She stared at me for a few seconds without a word. Apparently she believed that divorce was something too far away from her. I couldn't imagine how she would react once she got to know I was serious.

When my wife went to my office, Dew had just stepped out. Almost all the staff looked at my wife with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide something while talking with her. She seemed to have got some hint. She gently smiled at my subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes.

Once again, Dew said to me. "He Ning, divorce her, O.K.?" Then we live together. I nodded. I knew I could not hesitate any more.

When my wife served the last dish, I held her hand. "I've got something to tell you". She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want to divorce. I raised the serious topic calmly. She didn't seem to be much annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, "Why?" I'm serious. I avoided her question. This so-called answer turned her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me. "You are not a man!"

At that night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer, because my heart had gone to Dew.

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. I felt a pain in my heart. The woman who had been living ten years with me would become a stranger one day. But I could not take back what I had said.

Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer.

A late night, I came back home after entertaining my clients. I saw her writing something at the table. I fell asleep fast. When I woke up, I found she was still there. I turned over and was asleep again. She brought up her divorce conditions. She didn't want anything from me, but I was supposed to give her one month's time before divorce, and in the month's time we must live as normallife as possible. Her reason was simple. Our son would finish his summer vacation a month later and she didn't want him to see our marriage broken.

Shepassed me the agreement she drafted, and then asked me, "He Ning, do you still remember how I entered our bridal room on the wedding day?" This question suddenly brought back all those wonderful memories to me. I nodded and said, "I remember." "You carried me in your arms." She continued, "So, I have a requirement, that is, you carry me out in your arms on the day when we divorce. From now to the end of this month, you must carry me out from the bedroom to the door every morning." I accepted with a smile. I knew she missedthose sweet days and wished to end her marriage with a romantic form.

I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought itwas absurd. "No matter what tricks she does, she has to face the result of divorce." She said scornfully. Her words more or less made me feel uncomfortable.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. We even treated each other as a stranger. So when I carried her out for the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms.

She closed her eyes and said softly. "Let us start from today, don't tell our son."I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for bus, I drove to office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. We were so close that I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realised that Ihadn't looked at this intimate woman carefully for a long time. I found she was not young any more. There were some fine wrinkles on her face.

On the third day, she whispered to me, "The outside garden is being demolished. Be careful when you pass there."

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I seemed to feel that we were still an intimate couple and I was holding my sweetheart in my arms. The visualisation of Dew became vaguer.

On the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me something, such as, where she put the ironed shirts, I should be careful while cooking, etc. I nodded. The sense of intimacy was even stronger. I didn't tell Dew about this. I felt it was easier to carry her. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

I said to her, "It seems not difficult to carry you now." She was picking her dresses. I was waiting to carry her out. She tried quite a few but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, "All my dresses have grown fatter." I smiled. But I suddenly realised that it was because she was thinner that I could carry her more easily, not because I was stronger. I knew she had buried all the bitterness in her heart.

Again, I felt a sense of pain. Subconsciously I reached out a hand to touch her head. Our son came in at the moment. "Dad, it's time to carry mum out." He said. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had been an essential part of his life.

She gestured our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face because I was afraid I would change my mind at the last minute. I held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly, as if we came back to our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad.

On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. She said, "Actually I hope you will hold me in your arms until we are old." I held her tightly and said, "Both you and I didn't notice that our life was lack of such intimacy."

I jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my decision. I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door. I said to her, "Sorry, Dew, I won't divorce. I'm serious." She looked at me, astonished. Then she touched my forehead, "You got no fever." I moved her hand off my head. "Sorry, Dew. I can only say sorry to you.

I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of life, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I understand that since I carried her into the home, she gave birth to our child, I am supposed to hold her until I am old. So I have to say sorry to you."

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into cry. I walked downstairs and drove to the office.

When I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my wife whichwas her favourite. The salesgirl asked me to write the greeting words on the card. I smiled and wrote. "I'll carry you out every morning until we are old."

I didn't realize she had been suffering from cancer and thatShe has only one month to live, which she chose to live to the fullest. That was the one month I was opportuned to carry her in my arms, as I await our divorce.

While I drove home happily to tell her, I had dropped the divorce, by thee time i arrived she had passed away, lying peaceful on our matrimonial bed, in the same white gown, she wore during our wedding.

In her hands was a note bearing the inscription, "And Now we are divorced, FOREVER. You may live a free and Happy Life. I am glad, that my last moments, were the best moments of my life".

I couldn't Believe my eyes.
I Just could not cry anymore.


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HOW TO TREAT YOUR GIRL/WOMAN

(must read for all men)
1-When she walks away from you [ follow her ]
2-When she stares at your lips [ kiss her ]
3-When she pushes you or hit's you [ grab her and don't let go ]
4-When start's cursing at you [ kiss her and tell her you love her ]
5-When she's quiet [ ask her whats wrong ]
6-When she ignore's you [ give her your attention ]
7-When she pulls away [ pull her back ]
8-When you see her at her worst [ tell her she's beautiful]
9-When you see her start crying [ just hold her & don't say a word]
10-When you see her walking [ sneak up & hug her waist from behind ]
11-When she's scared [protect her ]
12-When she lays her head on your shoulder [ Tilt her head up & kiss her ]
13-When she steals your favorite hat [ Let her keep it & sleep with it for a night]
14-When she tease's you [tease her back & make her laugh ]
15-When she doesnt answer for a long time [ reassure her that everything is okay ]
16-When she looks at you with doubt [ Back yourself up with the TRUTH]
17-When she grabs your hands [ hold hers & play with her fingers]
18-When she bumps into you [ bump into her back & make her laugh ]
19-When she tells you a secret [ keep it safe & untold ]
20-When she looks at you in your eyes [ dont look away until she does ]
21-WHEN SHE MISSES YOU [SHE'S HURTING INSIDE]
22-When you break her heart [ the pain NEVER really goes away ]
23-When she says its over [she STILL wants you to be hers]

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HOW MUCH IS A MIRACLE- A MUST READ!!!

Tess was a precocious eight year old when she heard her Mom and Dad talking about her little brother, Andrew. All she knew was that he was very sick and they were completely out of money. They were moving to an apartment complex next month because Daddy didn't have the money for the doctor bills and our house.

Only a very costly surgery could save him now and it was looking like there was no-one to loan them the money. She heard Daddy say to her tearful Mother with whispered desperation, "Only a miracle can save him now."

Tess went to her bedroom and pulled a glass jelly jar from its hiding place in the closet. She poured all the change out on the floor and counted it carefully. Three times, even. The total had to be exactly perfect. No chance here for mistakes. Carefully placing the coins back in the jar and twisting on the cap, she slipped out the back door and made her way 6 blocks to Rexall's Drug Store with the big red Indian Chief sign above the door.

She waited patiently for the pharmacist to give her some attention but he was too busy at this moment. Tess twisted her feet to make a scuffing noise. Nothing. She cleared her throat with the most disgusting sound she could muster. No good.

Finally she took a quarter from her jar and banged it on the glass counter. That did it! "And what do you want?" the pharmacist asked in an annoyed tone of voice. "I'm talking to my brother from Chicago whom I haven't seen in ages," he said without waiting for a reply to his question.

"Well, I want to talk to you about my brother," Tess answered back in the same annoyed tone.
"He's really, really sick… and I want to buy a miracle."
"I beg your pardon?" said the pharmacist.
"His name is Andrew and he has something bad growing inside his head and my Daddy says only a miracle can save him now.
So how much does a miracle cost?"
"We don't sell miracles here, little girl. I'm sorry but I can't help you," the pharmacist said,
softening a little. "Listen, I have the money to pay for it. If it isn't enough, I will get the rest. Just tell me how much it costs."

The pharmacist's brother was a well dressed man. He stooped down and asked the little girl,
"What kind of a miracle does you brother need?"
"I don't know," Tess replied with her eyes welling up. "I just know he's really sick and Mommy says he needs an operation.

But my Daddy can't pay for it, so I want to use my money."
"How much do you have?" asked the man from Chicago.
"One dollar and eleven cents," Tess answered barely audibly. "And it's all the money I have, but I can get some more if I need
to.
"Well, what a coincidence," smiled the man. "A dollar and eleven cents – the exact price of a miracle for little brothers."
He took her money in one hand and with the other hand he grasped her mitten and said, "Take me to where you live. I want to see your brother and meet your parents. Let's see if I have the kind of miracle you need."

That well dressed man was Dr. Carlton Armstrong, a surgeon, specialising in neuro-surgery. The operation was completed without charge and it wasn't long until Andrew was home again and doing well. Mom and Dad were happily talking about the chain of events that had led them to this place.

"That surgery," her Mom whispered. "was a real miracle. I wonder how much it would have cost?"

Tess smiled. She knew exactly how much a miracle cost… one dollar and eleven cents …… plus the faith of a little child.

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THANK YOU LORD- A MUST SHARE

If u have
Food in ur fridge
Clothes on ur body
A roof over ur head and
A place 2 sleep
U r richer than 75% of the entire world.

If u have
money in ur wallet
A little change
And Can go anywhere u want
U r among the top 18% of the worlds wealthy people.

If u wake up this morning with more health than illness,
U r more blessed than the million people
who will not survive this week and die.

If u can actually 'READ' this message
and understand it,
U r more fortunate than the 3 billion ppl in the world
who Cannot see, Cannot read Or suffer mental retardation.

Life is nt about complaining pain and sorrows.
It's about a thousand other reasons to Thank our Creator!!!
David Silva

IMAGINE YOUR BANK ACCOUNT CREDITED N86,400 DAILY- A MUST READ

Imagine there is a bank that credits your account each morning with $86,400. It carries over no balance from day to day. Every evening deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day.

What would you do? Draw out every cent, of course!!!! Each of us has such a bank. Its name is TIME.

Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds. Every night it writes off, as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to good purpose. It carries over no balance. It allows no overdraft.
Each day it opens a new account for you. Each night it burns the remains of the day. If you fail to use the day's deposits, the loss is yours.

There is no going back. There is no drawing against the "tomorrow". You must live in the present on today's deposits.
Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness, and success!

The clock is running. Make the most of today.

• To realize the value of ONE YEAR, ask a student who failed in SSC Exam or UTME.

• To realize the value of ONE MONTH, ask a mother who gave birth to a premature baby.

• To realize the value of ONE WEEK, ask the editor of a weekly newspaper. .

• To realize the value of ONE HOUR, ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.

• To realize the value of ONE MINUTE, ask a person who missed the train.

• To realize the value of ONE SECOND, ask a person who just avoided an accident.

• To realize the value of ONE MILLISECOND, ask the person who won a silver medal in the Olympics


Treasure every moment that you have! And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time. And remember that time waits for no one.


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BASIC RELATIONSHIPS PROBLEMS!!

The Following are Basic problems partners face in a relationship:

1. Money Issues: Too much or lack of it, one partner has and is not readyto share, one takes decisions that do not favor the other partner when it comes to spending money.

2. Excessive use of Social Media like Facebook, Twitter and other sites atthe expense of your relationship. Ignoring your partner because you aretoo carried away by your 'Social networking activities.'

3. Lack Of Communication: The only normal communication becomes: greetings like good morning and welcome. Other things to talk about are the Kids. Apart from greetings and kids, there is nothing to talk about, so every man to his own, Either one is watching TV while the other is online, or one is sleeping while the other is reading a book, orone is outside visiting alone while the other is guarding the home.

4. Excessive Consumption of Alcohol : Either by both or one partner. this sometimes leads to quarrels, fights, disagreements and other issues that breach the peace that was.

5. Internet Relationships: One or both Partners become too involved in Internet Relationships and begins to ignore the relationships in the realworld as too much time is spent chatting and having "fantasy fun."

6. Sexual Problems : These problems arise as a result of incompatible libido or complete loss of libido. It can actually be treated or worked upon.

7. Boredom with the Relationship : Both or one partner is actually boredwith the Relationship, craves for something different, craves for adventure that is lacking in the Relationship. It can lead to emotional affairs and then make matters worse for this relationship as the boredom just increases and if not nib bed early, can lead to more serious problems.

8. Managing the Kids all alone : This is a problem in a large family where there is no support system for the family, and one partner gets tomanage the kids all alone while also managing the "family". It is a serious problem when one partner feels that giving money equals managing the home, and forgets that money can't go shopping on it's own; money cannot drop kids at school; money cannot cook the meals; money cannot do the washing and cleaning; money cannot take kids forDoctor's appointments etc. Especially when the money is not enough to pay those who can render these services for a fee. The one who puts in that physical energy may begin to feel used, and this is a common problem.

9. Infidelity: Infidelity has destroyed many relationships, It is a common relationship problems and I think that Lack of self control and discipline is a cause of this.

10. Pride: Pride goes before destruction and a haughty spirit before a great fall. A healthy Relationship is all about compromise, selflessness and humility, and finally, respect and appreciation for others. Can you think of any common Relationship Problem? Can you share with us by leaving a comment?

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MY STEP-FATHER ABUSED ME FOR 10 YEARS- A MUST READ

I saw this story and i had to share with my readers. what on God's green earth would make a man marry a woman, and still sexually abuse her kids…beats my imagination.
Here is the story below……

I was abused by my step-father for 10 years, starting from the age of 7 all the way to 17. I am now 18 years old.

I still remember the first time I was abused and it haunts me constantly. I remember he told me not to tell even though I felt like it was wrong. He was supposed to be a man of God and lived a life of lies constantly lying to my mother and younger siblings. Around the age of 9 I wanted it all to stop, I told him to leave me alone.

He apologized and for a little while left me to myself, he then came back and tried to bribe me with toys and candy as I got older it got worse. When ever I tried to stay away from him he bribed me with money and clothes, I would resist and tell him no but he didn't stop. I would find ways to get out of the house or to be away from him as much as possible but it was so hard because my mother didn't know what was going on. I would have nightmares of him and I would cry, whenever he saw me cry it was like nothing to him, it just made him angry.

It got to the point where I would cry whenever my mother was leaving to go to work or even the store, I didn't want to be left alone with him because I knew what was going to happen. I stopped crying in front of him because it made mefeel weaker than I already was so whenever I was in my room at night, I wouldcry for hours.

When I was 17 I couldn't handle it anymore, I told him to leave me alone and to stay away from me. He became furious and told me he was going to ruin mylife. As months passed by he did just that, he wouldn't let me hangout with my best friend and called us "lesbians" for wanting to spend time with each other.

Whenever something went wrong he would yell at me and curse at me, he told me that everything I did was wrong and that I wouldn't ever be anything good in life. One day he came home from visiting his mother from the hospital, he came in very angry and impatient. My mother told him that he needed to take my little sister to the store to get some supplies for a project, he did just that.

After returning from the store my sister came in the room and told me she needed to tell me something that my step-father said, she told me that he said that he was going to kill me and my mother and that he hated us. When she told me that, I knew that we had to tell our mother.

While he was taking a shower my mother told her what he had said, she was furious. When he came out of the shower my mother confronted him, he raced towards the living room and yelled at my sister saying "You are not my daughter! You disappoint me!" My little sister went to her room crying while my mother and step-father fought. I went to her and I held her as she was crying, she held me and whispered in my ear saying " There is something elseI have to say but mom is going to hate me." My heart dropped , I knew what she was going to say. My mom came in the room and hugged my sister, she told her that everything was going to be okay and that he didn't mean what he had said.

At that moment my sister looked at my mom and cried even more, she said " Mom I have something else to tell you, dad had tried to touch me." My mother was in shock and asked my sister if she was sure, I had a feeling that she was going to question my little sister and I was scared she wasn't going to believe her so I decided to tell my motherwhat happened to me. My little sister and I cried, my mom kept asking me "Why didn't you tell me?" All Icould say was that I was scared.

My mother left the room and went up to him asking him if he had ever touchedme and my sister and he replied with a "No." My mother knew he was lying, she cried and slowly fell to the floor, my little sister and I went to her and held her as tight as we possibly could. My little brother went up to him and yelled at him, he knew he was lying. My brother forced him to pack up his things and leave the house before he called the police, so my step-father packed up and left. My mother gave me a couple of days to calm down from what had happen, then came up to me and asked me to tell her everything he did to me.

After I told her my story she asked me "Why? Why didn't you ever tell me?" And I told her "I thought you would hate me, I thought I would be separated from you, I thought you wouldn't believe me because that's what he told me. I would never want to hurt you and I thought you were happy with him, I didn't want to mess that up." I began to tremble and cry as I told her, she then held me and told me she would never hate me and that she loved me, she told me she never wanted me hurt.

I kept telling her I was sorry and that it was all my fault and that I would make it up to her. She told me that nothing was my faultand that I was young and didn't understand what to do. She then called the police, and ran an investigation. I am currently waiting to press charges towards him, I don't want another girl to go through the same things as I did.

What do you think should be done to this man, i honestly feel he should not be allowed to go free….imagine molesting his 2 step daughters…he isreally a beast!


David Silva

10 THINGS WOMEN LOVE TO HEAR

Do you sometimes find yourself struggling to find the right things to say to the lady in your life? If there's one thing that has always kept men wondering about women, it has to be figuring out what they love to hear. Whether you arein a committed relationship or wanting to take your relationship to the next level, here are 10 phrases that women never get sick of hearing.

1. "You're very smart."
Women want to be appreciated for their intelligence. By acknowledging her intelligence, you're communicating that you recognize her brains and not just her figure.

2. "You are the most beautiful woman I know."
Aside from making her feel aesthetically superior to other women, this remarkwill put her on a pedestal among her peers and give her an ego boost. She'll feel good about herself and will also feel less threatened by other women when they are around you. This phrase is particularly effective in long-term relationships, as you're assuring your woman that she's still hot.

3. "You're my best friend."
Want to assure her that you are the kind of man who's not just with her for herlooks? All you need to do is to tell her that she is not just the love of your life,but also your best friend. Telling her how you feel above and beyond a sexual context will make her feel overpoweringly connected to you.

4. "I am so proud of you."
Telling your woman how proud you are of her for working hard to achieve her goals and showing your loving support will make her heart melt.

5. "You're perfect just the way you are."
This statement says that you've accepted her completely. Giving her an ego boost like that makes her feel cognizant about how much you openly and willingly accept her flaws.

6. "I don't want to be with anyone else."
This expression of enduring commitment says that she has become an essential, indispensable ingredient in your life and that you couldn't live without her. This is a heavy line; it's not many degrees away from proposing to her, so only say this if you truly mean it.

7. "What do you feel/think about [anything]?"
Women love to express their feelings on every topic imaginable. Asking this question tells your lady that you respect her views and that you're genuinely concerned about her feelings and opinions.

8. "How was your day?"
Asking about her day assures that you're willing to lend her your pair of ears and focus on what she has to say.

9. "You're great in bed."
Praising her performance in bed makes her feel like she really knows how to satisfy you and indicates that you appreciate her performance between the sheets.

10. "I love you."
Few men realize or appreciate the power of saying "I love you." By saying those three magic words (when you really mean it), you're acknowledging an attachment to your woman and satisfying her most basic emotional need–to know how her man feels about her and to hear it. abuse the words. Remember–saying this just to smooth over mistakes or as a precursor to every word out of your mouth won't fill her with delight.

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10 WAYS TO MAKE A WOMAN SMILE

One of the easiest ways to win a woman over is by making her smile through thoughtfully spoken words and doing something intentional to show her a littlebit of appreciation and love. So, if your relationship is slipping into a funk, or you just want to make it more fun, here are 10 of the best ways to put a smile on your girlfriend's face.

1. Being chivalrous
Be a gentleman; hold doors open for her, be polite and be helpful. Ask her if she's cold when it's cold out and have a jacket or a sweater handy so you can give it to her.

2. Remembering important dates
Remembering birthdays, anniversaries and other milestones is a big deal with women. These important dates are also opportunities to show her how special she is to you.

3. Leave her romantic notes
Slip some romantic notes into your girlfriend's handbag. She is sure to smile at the words when she reads it later.

4. Tell her how beautiful she looks
Don't wait for a special occasion to say the words and it will make her day.

5. Introduce her to people that matter to you
Show her that you're proud to be with her by introducing her to people that are important to you when you're out.

6. Appreciate her attempts to look good for you
Make sure you pay attention to details such as hair, nails and new looks that she might try out. If your girlfriend has taken pains to dress up for an evening out, be sure to notice it and tell her she looks amazing. The compliment will surely bring a smile on her lips.

7. Send her flirtatious text messages
Being playful, sexual, and engaging her imagination with text messages will bring a few light moments on a busy working day and surely make her smile.

8. Send her flowers at work
Women LOVE getting flowers, especially at work, and receiving a lovely bouquet from you for no reason at all is certain to bring a smile on your girlfriend's lips. Having flowers delivered to your wife's workplace will make the women around her jealous, and what's more she will be secretly thrilled toget their envious glances.

9. Encourage her ideas and aspirations
What is important to her should be important to you as well. If you show an interest in what's important to her, you'll keep her smiling and feeling good about her dreams.

10. Make her laugh
A sense of humor usually tops a woman's attraction wish list and is one of the best ways to turn her on. A woman who finds herself laughing along with your great sense of humor is a girl who is more likely to fall for your charms.

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8 GUYS WOMEN AVOID DATING

While every woman is looking for something different in a man, there are certain types of men that women go out of their way to avoid. And this is especially true during the early stages of a relationship, when a woman is trying to gauge a man's personality. Below are eight types of guys that womenconsistently stay away from.

1. The Financially Irresponsible Guy
A huge red flag is a financially irresponsible man with bad credit who's constantly buying things he does not need, overdrawing his bank account(s) and maxing out credit cards. Most women don't want to deal with a guy who can't seem to rustle up enough money for a latte, pay their bills on time, or spend his money wisely.

2. The Man-Child
This guy is clinging to his glory days when life was less complicated and responsibility was minimal. He's obsessed with video games, frequently attends keg parties and considers Pizza Rolls one of the major food groups. These men are the ones who can't keep a job, blame everyone else for their own stupidity and laziness, and are constantly outraged that the world is not giving them respect.

3. The Narcissistic Guy
One type of attitude guys have that women avoid is being too narcissistic and self-contained. Most women feel that this type of guy is obsessed with himself and would rather spend his time toning his muscles and looking good than on a date with them.

4. The Needy Guy
Women are not attracted to the type of man who needs too much support, validation, and constant reinforcement. The moment a man becomes too insecure and dependent in a relationship, a woman will run for the hills.

5. The Wandering-Eye Guy
This type of man can be the most aggravating for women to deal with because he's constantly looking at every female but the one he's with. He makes inappropriate comments/gestures about women, ogles the bartender, the woman at the grocery store, even his best friend's wife, making the woman he's with feel inferior and unattractive.

6. The Predictable Guy
Women don't like the routine driven guy who does not like change, lacks spontaneity, and is predictable in all areas of his life from how he will react tosituations, decisions he will make, the sex he will have, and the dates he will go on.

7. The Liar
This guy fabricates stories about about pretty much anything in hopes of getting laid instead of just being honest about his life or his desire for a casual fling. While the little white lies about past conquests, jobs, exes, qualifications, and experiences may seem harmless, most women don't want todeal with a guy who can't or won't tell the truth.

8. The Desperate Guy
The desperate man may have a strong want and desire to have a relationship; however, due to having little experience in the romance and dating department, his behaviors can indicate low-self esteem and a host of other issues that turn women off and can actually be viewed as creepy and disturbing.
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10 TYPE OF WOMEN TO AVOID DATING

If you find that the women you date always turn out to be annoying or weird in some way, maybe you're just choosing the wrong type of woman. Although dating is not about putting people into categories, there are some personalities that just make a guy want to turn and run. If you steer clear of these 10 types of women, you'll avoid some major headaches in the future.

1. The Chatterbox
This is the woman who never shuts up, barely stopping to breathe. Seemingly only concerned about what is going on in her life, she always has to make a comment about everything and dominates conversations.

2. The Desperate Chick
This type of woman will seem fantastic at first, until she starts talking about your wedding location, how many kids she wants and the name of your future dog–right after the first date! When a woman advances WAY faster than normal, watch out. She NEEDS a man so bad that she's willing to put anybodyin that slot, even the homeless guy on the corner.

3. The Overly-Critical Woman
Anything you do for this type of woman is simply not good enough. Nothing seems to work unless it is done according to her standards. Anything that is said by anyone will be quickly taken out of context to become some sort of insult or some reason to wage war against the world. This type of woman has plenty of emotional baggage and will make you an angry and bitter person as there will be nothing but misery with her.

4. The Bimbo
This type of woman can't obtain a GED but has managed to secure a PhD in the science of the bedroom. This is an intellectually challenged woman who looks great but, in all honesty, shouldn't open her mouth. Her skills are unquestionably only rooted in the physical realm and unless you're just after one-night stands, you do not want to bring a stupid girl home to meet Mom and Dad.

5. The High Maintenance Chick
If this type of woman breaks a nail, she expects you to drop everything you're doing to drive her to the salon immediately. Her daddy always told her she was a princess and she expects to be treated like one at all times. She has expensive taste and expects you to shower her with only the best things and take her out to posh places on a regular basis.

6. The Clingy Girl
This woman is a nuisance who can't go anywhere or do anything without the company of her man. She'll adopt your interests, calls 20 times a day and fly off the handle anytime she's not around to monitor your behavior. This type of woman will smother any chance of you missing her by insisting that you spend every waking moment with her, refusing to let you go out with the boys or spend any significant amount of time with anyone else.

7. The Baby's Mama
This woman has a great physique, great personality and her toes are pretty too! There's only one problem–she's got a pretty large amount of children withassorted "baby-daddy's", and when women like this get desperate, any and every guy has the potential to be "daddy." This woman got knocked up by somebody that she was supposedly in love with, and not only is she a bad judge of character, she's GROSSLY irresponsible. The same guys that are "jerks" now are the same guys she once thought the world of and had unprotected sex with.

8. The Gold Digger
The Gold-Digger will compliment you on your expensive watch, ask you what kind of car you drive, what you do for a living, where you live and so on. Like the High Maintenance woman, the Gold Digger is basically looking for a sugardaddy, she'll size you up within the first five minutes and drop you just as quickly if your cash flow runs out and you can't take her shopping anymore. These types of women will just suck your wallet dry and leave you emasculated. Fortunately,you can usually see this type coming from a mile away.

9. The Club Girl
Club girls are nothing more than fantasy women who have been practically living in bars and clubs since they hit the legal drinking age. They have beautiful faces with full lips, big doe eyes, great legs, and all the curves you could ever ask for. The problem in dating these women is that they love to wear clothes that show off their great assets not just to you, but to every Tom, Dick and Harry on the street. A woman like this maybe carefree and wild; however, once you take a closer look, you'll realize that her entire life is a party and most nights will end with her puking in your car.

10. The Feminist
This type of woman can never be pleased by a man and she believes that men are the cause of all the pains and suffering of society. It is her strong belief that women are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things "the right way". You don't want to waste any time with this type of woman because anything that you do will always be negative to her.

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David Silva