Last week the men hadtheir own fair share of the mistakes they may most likely make in bed.
This week however, I choose to focus on the women. I hear women complain that their man is cheating on them even when they try hard to satisfy him. However it's time for you to check your faults, you may also be making one or more of the following mistakes, which is killing the vibes in your man. Let us look at the common mistakes I feel most women are guilty of.
Mistake
1. He is not a mind reader
I cannot understand why women think a man should know it all in bed. That a man has had experiences does not make him qualified for all women, so you should open up and tell him what you want or else he would treat you the same way he treated the last, learn to express your desires to your companion.
Mistake
2. Shut up and drive
I intentionally wrote this point on the heels of the first so you do not get it mixed up. Bed/sex time is not the time to drawl about your day or make financial demands nor is it a time to lament about his cheating. Quit the chatter, it is a huge turn off for most men. Let your conversation be centered on the event and make it short and sensual.
Mistake
3. She is a boring box
Why do you have to lie down like a log of wood and expect the man to enjoy sex with you? Let us face it, some body response from you would encourage your man. You need not be a bore in life and in bed. Show some enthusiasm here. Let's just say you can start by moving your waist to the rhythm?.
Mistake
4. She has low self-esteem
This mistake I would dare say may be the most common, most women are conscious of their flabby ass, protruding stomach, lumpy flesh etc. Well findings have shown that at the moment of sex, a man is sure not seeing thoseflaws. Quit complaining about those things and who says he hasn't accessed you long before he took you up. Learn to be confident about your body because low self-esteem brings about bad s*x.
Mistake
5. Don't mistake tickling for pleasure
It is natural for women to be more ticklish than men, therefore except you're sure he enjoys being tickled please stop it. Just because he strains his legs and moves his body or has a smile on his face does not mean he enjoys your tickling moves. He may just be fighting the urge to kick you in the face.
Mistake
6. She the piglet
Personal hygiene for both parties is very important but much more for the woman. No one wants to see an overgrown…, it is completely uninviting. Havea shower and wear clean lingerie before going to bed. You may use light cologne to give you a more pleasant fragrance. That sure would go a long wayin enhancing the mood.
Mistake
7. She never initiates lovemaking
I do not understand why a woman would desire s*x from her man yet keep quiet about it. Why starve yourself for something you crave for? It is a plus to women who know what they want and go for it. You need not hold unto your guards all the time. Do not be scared to reveal your desires, it is sure an intriguing part that most men want to appreciate.
Mistake
8. The school called s*x
Ladies should realise that s*x is not all about the act; it is a process of learning and experimenting. Do not be stuck up with the one thing you have known all you life. Experiment and learn more, most men are good teachers if you are a willing and good student.
Mistake
9. He licks your sauce you ignore his sausage
Do you like getting head? Yes! Do you give a blow jobs? No! Huh? That is not a balance diet if you ask me; the sauce should go with the sausage. In addition, you could ask how the sausage should be eaten if you do not know, rather than groping in the dark, a blow job sure requires some talent.
Mistake
10. Gliding off for a shower.
Cannot understand it when women scamper off for a shower or get dressed immediately after s*x. What is the point for that? Hang around in bed and relish the moment. Cuddling and snuggling together would make the experience better!
David Silva
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