8 REASONS WOMEN LEAVE MEN

All women have things they need in a relationship. Women want a man to be someone they can rely on, depend on and confide in along with making her feel happy, secure and loved. However, when things like insensitive remarks, little hurts and frustration pile up in a long term relationship, she might get tothe point where she simply says "enough is enough" and leaves.

It's a general rule that when your girlfriend decides to leave you, you've done something wrong. Chances are, you've done a lot of things wrong and depending on your situation, she probably left you for reasons you didn't think. Here are some reasons women leave.

1. Lack of Attention
Women love it when their men notice things about them and actually talks andlistens to them. If there is a lack of communication and she notices, she's likely to feel unsatisfied in the relationship even if everything else is going well. Listen to her when she talks. If she doesn't feel like she's receiving loveand attention from you, she'll eventually find someone who will treat her right.

2. Lack of Appreciation
Women do a lot more than men tend to give them credit for, so appreciate the little things you girlfriend does for you. Be sure you compliment her on her attire or how good she does on things. Let her know that you do appreciate her doing things for you.

3. Cheating
When you cheat, you acknowledge that something isn't right in your relationship. However, instead of dealing with it, you decide that having an affair is the best way to handle it. When you get caught cheating, the fragile bridge of trust is broken. A stable relationship is based on trust, and if that is broken, it would be very difficult to heal. If there is a problem within the relationship, talk with her about your concerns. After all, how would you feel if she did it to you?

4. Lack of emotional support
Women are unique creatures and they require a lot of emotional support. Theyneed to feel loved, needed and emotionally connected to their men. Women want their emotions met which means if they are supportive of you, they wouldlike you to be supportive of them. If you cannot meet her emotionally needs, itis most likely she will turn elsewhere for companionship.

5. Lack of Intimacy
Women do not want to feel as if you only want them for sex. They want true intimacy, which means physical contact without sex sometimes. If you only come around her when you want sex, she will be become dissatisfied and will not even want to be touched by you.

6. Lack of Ambition
Women who are ambitious will seek out a partner that is also ambitious. Women like to date men whom they can move forward with and they like to look ahead and see a bright future. Women want to know that a man can take care of himself, so having an unfavorable lifestyle and showing no signs of maturity can make a woman leave you quickly.

7. You were too controlling
Most women want men who will protect them and make them feel safe–but they don't want a dictator. Women do not want their boyfriends to tell them where to go, when to leave, who to talk to, or what to wear. Dating a guy with a controlling nature can be pretty scary for women and this will cause them to end the relationship.

8. You were too abusive
Abuse is not only physical. It can also take a verbal form. Being deceitful, having a short fuse, being overly-critical and belittling someone to make them feel worthless is also a type of abuse. Displaying these negative behaviors will cause her to leave you. Nobody wants to be with someone who is abusive.

BEWARE OF THIS VICES!!!

David Silva

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CAUGHT IN THE FLAMES!!! A must read

TOUCHING STORY.
TRUE STORY THAT HAPPENED IN CANADA

A baby boy David was born to a certain family. The mum was so excited that she hardly put him down.
One day she left him sleeping and went to the garden.

When she was there, the house caught fire and she ran back home as first as possible to save her only son. People tried to stop her but they didn't succeed. She went in and found the baby untouched.

Unfortunately her hair caught fire as she was going out and she started burning. It was very bad for the rest of her life because she had to live with a scar. The boy grew up and became very rich and shifted to town.

But in the real sense, he was ashamed of his mother's scars.
When people asked him, he would say, "l dont have someone so ugly in our family as my mother".

One day his mum overheard how his son was telling people and she was very disappointed. she decided to travel to town to
explain to his only son what had happened and the reason behind her ugliness. But unfortunately, the bus she was travelling with, got an accident and the mum died instantly. The boy heard of the news, and felt very happy.

He then rushed to the village and found people sad. He just passed them and went direct to her mothers room to search for
important documents.

He was shocked to find her MoM's oldest DIARY BOOK written,
DATE: 5th Sept 1980.
I was announced the WINNER MISS TORONTO BEAUTY CONTEST.

DATE: 14th Jan 1982.
My husband Tonny Gateson passed away in road accident and left me six months pregnant.

DATE: 2nd July 1983.I saved my only son David from a fire and I ended up loosing my hair while scars left on my face. David felt too bad and started crying,but it was TOO LATE!
TOO LATE!

PLEASE NOTE:
Never try to Abuse or Ignore your Parents.
They are blessing to us and you will cry when they are gone. Now, U have two thing to choose.

1. To SHARE this story to friends. OR
2. IGNORE as nothing has happened.

God is watching you. "I LOVE YOU MOM" !!! Send to ur friends if u really love her

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David Silva

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IN THIS DREAM, WAS A LION, A SNAKE AND SOME HONEY- A MUST READ

Once a man saw in his dream, that a lion was chasing him. The man ran to a tree, climbed on to it and sat on a branch. He looked down and saw that the lion was still there waiting for
him.

The man then looked to his side where the branch he was sitting on was attached to the tree and saw that two rats were circling around and eating the branch. One rat was black and the other one was white. The branch will fall on the ground very soon.

The man then looked below again with fear and discovered that a big black snake had come and settled directly under him. The
snake opened its mouth right under the man so that he will fall into it. The man then looked up to see if there was anything that he could hold on to.

He saw another branch with a honeycomb. Drops of honey were falling from it.
The man wanted to taste one of the drops. So, he put his tongue
out and tasted one of the falling drops of honey.

The honey was amazing in taste. So, he wanted to taste another drop and then another and as a result, he got lost into the
sweetness of the honey. He forgot about the two rats eating
his branch away, the lion on the ground and the snake that is sitting right under him. Suddenly when the branch broke he
remembered all the dangers woke up from his sleep.

The man couldn't understand the dream,so he went to a scholar to know its meaning.

The scholar said " The lion you saw is your death.
It always chases you and goes where ever you go.
The two rats,one black and one white, are the night and the day. Black one is the night and the white one is the day. They circle around, coming one after another, to eat your time as they take you closer to death. The big black snake with a dark mouth is your grave. It's there, just waiting for you to fall into it.

The honeycomb is this world and the sweet drops of honey are the luxuries of this world. We like to taste a little of the luxuries of this world and it's very sweet. Then we want to taste little more and then more. Meanwhile, we get lost into it and
we forget about our time, we forget about our
death and we forget about our grave."

Moral: Life is full of attractions and distractions.
And death will come to us without any notice. So prepare for it well in advance so that you won't have to regret later.

Have a blessed day..

David Silva

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3 WOMEN RAPES 20 YEAR OLD MAN

Many bizarre stories come out of Nigeria these days, but the one that came out of Gusau, Zamfara State this weekend will surely rank as a world-beater.

According to newspaper reports, three women were arraigned before a HigherShari'a Court in Gusau for allegedly r*ping a 20 year old man. The man, Abdulrahman Sulaiman, was a Man-O-War volunteer who went to the Women Multi-Purpose Center in Gusau to help organize a preaching session organizedby the state's Ministry of Women and Children's Affairs for women during the holy month of Ramadan.

According to the police prosecutors three women, Hannatu Ibrahim [23], Wosila Hassan [20] and Rukayya Hassan [21] conspired among themselves and serially r*ped Abdulrahman until he lost consciousness! How did this happen? The prosecutors said they lured him into a corner of the Women's Centre, where they "forced" him to made love with them in turn until poor Abdulrahman fell unconscious. It was said that he was rushed to hospital, where he was resuscitated. The three women have now been remanded in prison custody until Monday next week, when witnesses will be called to the court to testify against them.

I suspect that half of Gusau town will turn up in court on that day to hear the evidence against the three "conspirators." If the three women and the man in question actually did what they were alleged to have done 1] at a preaching session 2] during the month of Ramadan 3] when the centre was brimming withother women and children, then it will be a new low in religious morality in this part of the world.

The evidence will however be very interesting and it may force this country's lawyers and jurists to have to rewrite the law on r*pe. Some years ago, I heard a senior lawyer say on television that the law on rape as it stands todaydoes not envisage a woman r*ping a man, unless if he is a minor who is seduced by a much older woman. Otherwise, the lawyer said, "a woman cannot really r*pe a man because it requires his willing cooperation" to effect the act.

It will be interesting to see if the witnesses will say Abdulrahman shouted for help while he was being raped. Or what the three women used to force his cooperation—a gun or a knife, for instance. Anatomically speaking, while a man can successfully rape a woman who is not cooperating but who goes limp at gunpoint, the same can hardly be said of the reverse case. A man who has agun or a knife pointed at him and goes limp cannot be successfully r*ped!

My only fear with this story is that many men in Gusau and around this Nigeria will wistfully wish that they were the ones that were raped. Mark you, the three alleged "conspirators" are young women hardly out of teen ages. They will find many willing takers in Gusau and elsewhere in Nigeria without resorting to any force! In fact, if someone were to call for male volunteers to be r*ped, in this Nigeria, the queues will be longer than the men who lined upat the Hisbah Office in Kano to marry widows and divorcees !

David Silva

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THE CRAZY CAT- JUST TO GET YOU SMILLING

A man absolutely hated his wife's cat and decided to get rid of
him one day by driving him 20 blocks from his home and leaving him at the park.

As he was getting home, the cat was walking up the driveway.
The next day he decided to drive the cat 40 blocks away. He put
the beast out and headed home.

Driving back up his driveway, there was the cat!

He kept taking the cat further and further and the cat would always beat him home. At last he decided to drive a few miles away, turn right, then left, past the bridge, then right again and another right until he reached what he thought was a safe distance from his home and left the cat there.

Hours later the man calls home to his wife:
"Jane, is the cat there?"
"Yes", the wife answers, "why do you ask?"
Frustrated, the man answered,"Put that silly thing on the phone, I'm lost and need directions!"


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VERY IMPORTANT ADVICES, WHICH YOU MUST SHARE

Carefully read through each of the following...

-Warn your girl child never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.

-Avoid getting dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2years old. Lean to excuse yourself.

-If you have to hire a house-help please kindly take them for HIV screening to determine their HIV status, properly interview them and make up your mind to treat them well.

-Never allow any adult refer to your new born as 'my wife' or 'my husband'

-Never tempt your husband with your younger sister. (Else he'd say its hers and the devil's fault)

-Avoid unnecessary familiarity and make sure you take care of your husband by yourself lest you lead him into temptation.

-Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they played together because young people now sexually abuse themselves.

-Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

-Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you might need to patiently ask a lot of questions from your child.

-If you don't teach your children about sex, the society will teach them the wrong values.

-It is always advisable you go through any new material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

-Teach your 3year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you.
(remember, charity begins at home and with you)

-Blacklist some materials you think could threaten the sanity of your child (that includes music, movies and musicians) and let them understand the value of standing out of the crowd.

-Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them always!

Now If after reading through this and you think its useful enough.

Please SHARE it and don't forget to Pass it on


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HOW DO I TELL MY BOYFRIEND, I AM 4 YEARS OLDER- URGENT?

My Name is Brenda, Please help me, l don't know what to do. l am in a relationship with a guy who is a 4 yearsyounger than me(discovered it late),he´s so sweet and all a lady would need in a man.

Both of us work and we spend all weekends together. Mostly we spend time out taking walks and he is also a good cook.
Almost everything he does is so perfect and he wants to marry me. How do l tell him the truth that I'm 4 year older than him.
Please I really Need your Advice


David Silva

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